So many things happened when Tom Cruise appeared on The Oprah Winfrey Show in 2005.
The audience went wild before Cruise hit the stage, filling Harpo Studios in Chicago with deafening screams, applause and even some tears. When the world’s biggest movie star finally appeared on set to join Winfrey for an interview that altered pop culture forever, he delivered a passionately unhinged performance that found him professing his love for new girlfriend (and future wife) Katie Holmes. He knelt on the floor multiple times, pumped his fists, clenched Winfrey’s hands and ultimately leapt onto the sofa with both feet.
Even Winfrey was caught off guard by the display. “What has happened to you?” she excitedly asked an undeniably giddy Cruise, who, by that point in his career, had been the picture of movie star perfection. Later she admitted, “We’ve never seen you behave this way before.” No one had.
“I’m in love!” Cruise explained. The audience ate it up. People may use the word iconic too liberally these days but it’s fitting here: The couch jumping incident was an iconic moment in television that still inspires podcast episodes, columns and essays from pop culture watchers. It also changed the course of Cruise’s career and his love life.
Another thing happened as a result of the appearance: It cost Tim Menke his job at Paramount Pictures back in 2005. (In 2018, Menke returned to the studio where he remains employed today.)
It was a surprising reveal that came during Friday’s ICG Publicists Awards at the Beverly Wilshire hotel where Menke, a respected and beloved veteran motion picture studio publicist, was being honored with the Henri Bollinger Award for special merit. He opened his acceptance speech by paying tribute to the awards luncheon for which he has been closely involved for a milestone 30 years. He’s long served as a chair on the event committee and has only missed one luncheon during that time.
“These awards solidified a special place in my heart in 2006 when, after a dozen years at Paramount, I was kicked to the curb in large part because, well, long story short of a couch on [The Oprah Winfrey Show],” Menke said as the capacity crowd loudly responded with “oohs” and laughter. “It was my booking and it didn’t go very well. It violated the adage that all publicity is good publicity.”
That’s all he said about Cruise and the sofa but at the time the veteran star was making the promotional rounds for his starring role in Steven Spielberg’s 2005 sci-fi epic War of the Worlds for Paramount Pictures and Dreamworks. Menke served as a senior publicist for Paramount until he was routinely dismissed for the booking.
Menke, in a heartfelt and career-spanning speech, did reveal more about his own resume in the wake of the firing by saying that he was able to rebound by landing a job in the publicity department at 20th Century Fox. The multiple Maxwell Weinberg Award winner has now found his way back to Paramount, where he currently works under “visionary leader” Liz West. “Shout out to the studio head who thought after 12 years away, it might be a good idea for me to drive through the gates of Paramount once again as an employee,” he said.
The firing proved to be a juicy piece of intel in a rousing ceremony that also saw Oscar winner Kathy Bates honored as Showperson of the Year for her work in Matlock. It also came 20 years after the incident, which has found its way back to the zeitgeist due to the milestone anniversary.
Winfrey hasn’t talked about it in years though she did relive the experience in a TV Guide Magazine interview with then editor-in-chief Debra Birnbaum. “Certainly, I did not think that it would turn into the brouhaha that it did,” Winfrey told the publication 12 years ago. “He was in love. He was very happy about it. He was on a show. He knew me. He came to play.”
She was surprised it went viral in the way that it did back then. “It ended up on the evening news, people played that tape all over the world,” she said. “I thought it was an expression of delightful exuberance and being in love. Any woman, anywhere, in any hut, in any mansion, in any hovel or in any home would be really thrilled to have her man jump on a sofa run around a room, whatever, proclaiming his love for her.”
Winfrey thought the coverage and cultural response was “really unfair.” Some people might say the same about Menke’s dismissal.
Sandy Bollinger and honoree Tim Menke, awarded with the Henri Bollinger Award, pose together at the 62nd ICG Publicists Awards at the Beverly Wilshire in Beverly Hills, Calif., on Feb. 28, 2025. (Photo by Trae Patton/ICG)
