Nestled in the rolling plains of Tishomingo, Oklahoma, lies a 1,300-acre haven where country music superstar Blake Shelton and pop icon Gwen Stefani have built a life that blends rustic simplicity with the vibrancy of their shared passions. The couple, who met as coaches on The Voice in 2014 and married in an intimate ceremony on Shelton’s Oklahoma ranch in July 2021, has found solace and joy in their rural retreat. Their sprawling property, known as Ten Point Ranch, is more than just a home—it’s a sanctuary where they nurture their love, raise Stefani’s three sons, and cultivate a lifestyle that contrasts sharply with their high-profile careers. Yet, despite their idyllic life, Shelton and Stefani share one poignant regret: not meeting sooner. This article explores their journey, their life on the ranch, and the singular wish that lingers in their hearts.

A Love Born in the Spotlight

Blake Shelton, a country music titan with hits like “God’s Country,” and Gwen Stefani, the No Doubt frontwoman known for her ska-punk anthems and pop hits, might seem an unlikely pair at first glance. Their paths crossed in 2014 on the set of The Voice, where both were navigating personal turmoil. Shelton had recently divorced fellow country star Miranda Lambert, while Stefani was finalizing her split from Gavin Rossdale, with whom she shares three sons: Kingston (19), Zuma (16), and Apollo (11). Their shared experience of high-profile divorces forged an immediate connection, one that Shelton described to Billboard in 2016: “I was at rock bottom, in the middle of hell… Gwen saved my life. Who else on earth could understand going through a high-profile divorce from another musician?”

What began as a friendship blossomed into romance by 2015, and their chemistry was undeniable. Stefani, a California native who admitted to Marie Claire in November 2024 that she “never listened to country music” and didn’t know Shelton existed before The Voice, found herself drawn to his authenticity and humor. Their relationship culminated in a 2020 engagement and a 2021 wedding at a chapel Shelton built on his Oklahoma ranch, a gesture that symbolized his commitment to their shared future.

The Oklahoma Ranch: A World of Their Own

The couple’s Oklahoma ranch is more than a backdrop—it’s a central character in their love story. Purchased by Shelton for around $4 million, the 1,600-acre Ten Point Ranch is a sprawling estate where the couple escapes the glare of Hollywood. Stefani, who grew up in Orange County with the beach as her playground, told E! Online in November 2024, “I grew up in Orange County, so it’s nothing like the middle of America… to be able to experience a ranch kind of vibe is just something I never ever had, so it’s been really, it’s been great, amazing.”

The ranch is a family affair. Stefani’s sons have embraced the rural lifestyle, with activities like fishing and ATV riding becoming favorites. A heartwarming Instagram post from April 13, 2025, shared by Stefani, captured her youngest son, Apollo, helping pick flowers near the ranch’s mini-chapel for Easter preparations, a testament to how the family has adapted to this new environment. The ranch also features flower fields, vegetable patches, and even purple irises that inspired Stefani’s song “Purple Irises,” written about her bond with Shelton. “We came across this very old building on the land, and there were some purple irises, which someone must have planted centuries ago, but they’ve survived,” she shared, drawing a parallel to their enduring love.

Shelton, a born-and-bred Oklahoman, finds solace in the great outdoors. He told AOL in February 2025 that the ranch is where he reconnects with his roots, often inviting fellow country artists to hunt and fish, bonding over their shared love of nature. The couple’s time on the ranch is a deliberate shift toward a slower, more intentional life, especially since Shelton stepped away from The Voice in 2023 to prioritize family. Stefani echoed this sentiment to Extra, saying, “I think he just got to a point where he just wants time in his ranch… we planted a garden, we do all kinds of fun stuff.”

A Creative Partnership

While the ranch offers a respite, it hasn’t dimmed the couple’s creative spark. Their latest musical collaboration, a duet titled “Hangin’ On” from Shelton’s album For Recreational Use Only (released May 9, 2025), showcases their ability to blend their distinct styles—country grit meets pop flair. Shelton revealed to NBC that recording the track was “definitely a challenge,” but their passion for pushing vocal boundaries made it rewarding. They even recorded a second duet, which they’re saving for a future release, hinting at more joint projects to come.

However, their recent performances at the 2025 American Music Awards stirred controversy when fans discovered their appearances were pre-recorded, not live as advertised. Social media erupted with disappointment, with one TikTok user writing, “The craziest part of the AMAs last night was being told ‘and here’s Blake Shelton Live’ only for them to light up the stage like he’s there, and never saying to us it was pre-recorded. THEN, doing the same thing with Gwen Stefani!” Despite the backlash, Shelton and Stefani addressed the criticism with grace, focusing instead on their shared projects and life off-stage.

The One Regret: Meeting Sooner

Despite their happiness, Shelton and Stefani share a singular regret, as Shelton revealed to NBC in April 2025: “We literally just have so much fun together, and the only regret that we have is that we didn’t find each other until late in life, you know? But [we] also know that we had to go through everything we went through to get us to there.” This sentiment underscores the depth of their bond, forged through shared experiences and mutual support.

Their journey to each other was not without challenges. Both endured public divorces, and Stefani has spoken openly about the spiritual dimension of their relationship. On The Drew Barrymore Show in April 2025, she referred to a “third party” in their marriage—pointing skyward to indicate God—crediting faith as a cornerstone of their happiness. This spiritual connection, combined with their shared love of music and family, has solidified their partnership.

A Life of Balance

The couple’s life on the ranch is a study in balance. They juggle high-energy careers with quiet moments of connection, whether it’s gardening, hosting friends, or surprising fans at Shelton’s Ole Red bar in Tishomingo, as he did on Thanksgiving 2024. Stefani’s social media posts offer glimpses of this balance, from clips of their Ozarks getaway in April 2025 to everyday moments on the ranch. These posts resonate with fans, who marvel at how the couple has sustained their love for nearly a decade.

Their commitment to family is equally central. Stefani’s sons have grown up visiting the ranch since the couple’s early days, and Shelton has embraced his role as a stepfather. The boys’ enthusiasm for ranch life—evident in their love for outdoor activities—mirrors their mother’s adaptation to this new world. The couple’s ability to blend their families, careers, and passions has made their Oklahoma ranch a symbol of their unity.

Looking Ahead

As Shelton and Stefani plan to spend the bulk of summer 2025 on the ranch, they’re focused on “nourishing” their relationship and enjoying quality time without the kids, according to Life & Style. This retreat will likely inspire more music, as their creative synergy continues to flourish. With a second duet in the works and Shelton’s Friends & Heroes Tour on the horizon, the couple shows no signs of slowing down, even as they cherish their downtime in Oklahoma.

Their story is one of resilience, love, and reinvention. From the chaos of public divorces to the tranquility of their ranch, Shelton and Stefani have crafted a life that reflects their shared values. Their only wish—to have met sooner—speaks to the joy they’ve found in each other, a joy that radiates from their Oklahoma haven to their fans worldwide. As Stefani told E! Online, meeting Shelton felt like “a second chance at life,” and together, they’re making every moment count.

In the end, Blake Shelton and Gwen Stefani’s Oklahoma ranch is more than a place—it’s a testament to their love, a canvas for their creativity, and a home where their dreams continue to grow. While they can’t change the timing of their meeting, they’re making up for lost time with every song, every sunset, and every shared moment under the Oklahoma sky.