In a candid new interview on The New York Times‘ “Popcast” podcast, released in mid-January 2026, A$AP Rocky (born Rakim Mayers) shared one of the most endearing behind-the-scenes stories of his relationship with Rihanna — and it turns out the spark wasn’t entirely his idea. The Harlem-born rapper, 37, opened up about how his mother, Renee Black (often called Rina or Renee), played an unexpected but pivotal role as the ultimate matchmaker, pushing him toward Rihanna for years before the two ever made their romance official.
Rocky and Rihanna’s love story has long been one of Hollywood’s most admired: a slow-burn friendship that blossomed into a committed partnership and family life. They first crossed paths around 2012 during rehearsals for the MTV Video Music Awards, where their onstage chemistry — including a memorable moment during a performance of Rihanna’s “Cockiness (Love It)” — had fans buzzing. Over the next several years, their bond deepened through collaborations like Rihanna’s guest appearance in Rocky’s 2013 music video for “Fashion Killa,” and her enlisting him as an opening act on her Diamonds World Tour. They remained close friends, sharing mutual respect in the music and fashion worlds, but nothing romantic surfaced publicly.
That changed in late 2019, with their relationship confirmed by PEOPLE in November 2020. The couple has since welcomed three children: son RZA Athelston in May 2022, son Riot Rose in August 2023, and daughter Rocki Irish in September 2025. They’ve navigated parenthood, high-profile careers, and public scrutiny with a grounded, affectionate dynamic that fans adore — from coordinated red-carpet looks to quiet family moments in Barbados or New York.
But in the Popcast conversation — tied to the promotional rollout for Rocky’s fourth studio album Don’t Be Dumb (released January 16, 2026) — Rocky revealed a charming layer: his mom had been rooting for this pairing long before he was ready to see it himself. “My mother used to say s–t like, ‘I know you like this girl that you with right now’ — I ain’t gon’ say no names — ‘but I want you with RiRi,’” Rocky recalled with a laugh. He admitted brushing her off at the time: “It’s like, ‘Ma, why you keep saying that? That girl don’t even want me like that. Like, be cool, Mom. That’s just my friend. Chill.’”
Renee wasn’t deterred. She repeatedly described Rihanna as “real” — grounded, authentic, and a perfect match for her son. Rocky now reflects on those persistent nudges with gratitude and amusement: “Mothers know best.” He emphasized that Rihanna “was always my boo, you know what I’m saying?” — a term of endearment he used even during their friendship phase.
The revelation adds a wholesome, relatable twist to their story. While fans had long speculated about their chemistry (fueled by shared cultural ties, similar birth years — both 1988 — and Rocky’s Barbadian paternal roots aligning with Rihanna’s heritage), it was Renee who spotted the deeper potential early on. Rocky credits the timing of their romance as divine: “I’m thankful that [Rihanna] was put in my life at that time because any time prior to that I don’t think I was ready for something like that.” He also noted how the COVID-19 pandemic accelerated their bond, forcing quality time that might not have happened otherwise — a sentiment Rihanna echoed in past interviews, calling it something “God knew we needed.”
Beyond the matchmaking anecdote, Rocky spoke glowingly about how Rihanna transformed his life. “A woman will change your whole life, especially if it’s a companion,” he said. “Being with my girl took a blindfold off.” He described her influence in clarifying friendships, sharpening his perspective, and bringing emotional depth — shifting him from what he called a “cold-hearted” phase pre-kids to a more loving, open man today. Their shared values, humor about family similarities, and easy rapport make their partnership feel effortless, even amid global fame.
Rihanna has reciprocated the praise, often highlighting Rocky’s kindness, leadership as a father, and supportive nature. In earlier conversations, she’s called him a “leader” and noted how fatherhood deepened her admiration. Their family life — blending music, fashion, philanthropy (through Rihanna’s Clara Lionel Foundation), and parenting — continues to inspire. Recent sightings in New York City, Barbados vacations, and red-carpet appearances show a couple thriving on mutual respect and joy.
The mom’s role in their story resonates universally. Parental intuition about partners is a timeless trope, but hearing it from a high-profile couple like this makes it feel fresh and genuine. Renee Black’s quiet conviction — seeing Rihanna’s authenticity and envisioning a future for her son — proved spot-on. As Rocky put it, she wasn’t just right about the romance; she foresaw a partnership that would bring stability, growth, and three beautiful children.
In an industry often defined by fleeting connections, A$AP Rocky and Rihanna’s journey stands out as one built on friendship, timing, and — thanks to a perceptive mom — a little extra push from fate. As they continue raising their family and pursuing creative projects (Rocky’s album drop, Rihanna’s rumored music return), their story reminds fans that sometimes the best love stories start with someone who believes in them before the couple even does.
